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Healing take time

Parental love is essential to Healing our inner child. They provide the basic necessities, such as food, support and a roof over their head and are part of how you perceives  the world. Your relationship with your parents is a model of every one of your adult relationships.  Withdrawal of their love can become detrimental to the psychological and emotional well being of a young child. “She held herself until the sobs of the child inside subsided entirely. I love you, she told herself. It will all be okay.”  H. Raven Rose.

 Healing Wounded Inner Child take time

Wounded Child need time to heal.

When kids are left alone  by their caregivers they tend to blame themselves.  It’s their fault; they feel not smart, pretty or good enough to make their parent stay with the family.  Letters written to missing parents is a heartbreaking thing to read.

Parents your time and patience will help your child to heal.

Letter to Parents

Why do you hate me??? Why did you leave my mom? I waited, we waited, but you never came home. Was it I? Is it because I’m not smart enough, because I don’t play well with others, because I don’t always listen? My dad a lair, I can’t stand you, you never coming back, I knew it. Remind me not again, you always say that.

How Healing our Inner Self with love take time and patience

How Healing our Inner Self with love take time and patience

You left us and I feel pain! why promised you’d never leave me, you never came back, and  we were a family! You are a liar!

How many little girls can say they have this kind of daddy emotional youtube video by Metlife,inc.

I waited for you, every night, and every morning when I get up, celebrate every birthday with a stranger, hoping for you to come back… if I’m so bad why did   leave, why was I ever born???

Heal inner sorrow.

The emotions of these wounded children often shift between sadness and anger.  But the common theme is almost always self-blame. These lacking feelings persist throughout adolescent into adulthood. Can have an impact on their quality of life. Their perception of themselves and every relationship they have as adults.

How Healing our Inner Self with love take time and patience

Support and trust are the first building stones towards healing your character. Whether you’re helping yourself or trying to help a child coping with rejection.  The first thing you need to do is to create a caring environment. Validates  in a non-shaming way.  People, who experiences parental neglect impact of these experiences in their minds.

Accept the facts

Child abandonment  is the practice of relinquishing interests and claims over one’s offspring in a  way with the intent of never again resuming.

 This is a coping strategy. Although not a successful one long term. To heal your inner child accept the fact that you are  wounded. In most cases, parents that abandon their children experienced the same kind of neglect. Non the less they are nothing more than wounded kids themselves.
How Healing our Inner Self with love take time and patience.
It’s important to remember that the feelings of anger, sadness and remorse are a normal part of life. To heal yourself you need to channel all your emotions.  Pain and suffering. but find a healthy outlet. The decision of your parent has nothing to do with you. There was nothing you could have done to change it.
Healing is a work in process.

Evoking deep feelings of sadness and remorse.  But they are just another step in the healing process. Kids who have experienced parental abandonment in early childhood has left them wounded and scarred.  Often they are  afraid to love or trust. Not wanted to be hurt again. They end up  concealing their pain from others. You have to realize that  hiding it from  yourselves is not the norm. It can make you depressed.

Embrace you’re suffering, loneliness and shame. Accept that it’s a part of your life. Forgive and let the healing begin.