Its important to love yourself
Loving yourself take time. Especially if you are depressed. “We have to dare to be ourselves, however frightening or strange that self may prove to be.” ― May Sarton Simple put the mirror don’t lied why not become its friend. You have to get into the habit of telling yourself how beautiful you are. Smile at the mirror. Some of us are afraid of that mirror why because we are afraid of the truth.
Loving others before you have learn to accept yourself is a no go. If you allow others to dictate who you are they will take advantage of your kindness. Only leaving you feeling stifle from their control which eventually you will become angry and depressed. Try to not compare yourself. Be nonjudgemental of you. Majority of the time we are critical of how we look and behave. Thanks to the media. Our teens are made to believe they are not thin enough or not beautiful. Make a person hard to love there flaws.
Loving others first before yourself is the last thing you should do.
Remember how you felt inside of you. No matter how you try or do for a person they make you feel less. The truth is the reason you feel empty and worthless. Because you have forgotten how to love yourself first. Even in despair you held on cause you thought it is love. Loving others was your key to happiness. No way, Why not change your mindset. Change you’re thinking.
Loving yourself first is what you should do.
Remember this quote “We accept the love we think we deserve.” ― Stephen Chbosky, You deserve to be treated with respect. Start that conversation in the mirror. Become better at loving self. Treat yourself to a fun holiday do what you like only. Not expensive, a walk in the park, or Ice cream treat will do. Stay away from negative people. And don’t forget to call on your support buddy to cheer you up when feeling down. Once you have learn to love yourself. You develop a relationship with you. No one can take that away from you. No one can ill-treat you. Unless you agree to it.