Bullying: A Growing Concern
Today’s teens are immersed in technology. Social media platforms like Instagram, TikTok, and Snapchat have become their digital playgrounds. Teens love posting selfies, sharing moments, and chatting with friends. But for many, those same platforms have also become a space for cyberbullying—a hidden danger that parents and educators must not ignore.
Unlike verbal teasing or schoolyard rumors, cyberbullying leaves a digital footprint. And sadly, it has been proven to have deadly consequences.
The Heartbreaking Story of Ryan Halligan
Ryan Patrick Halligan, a sweet, intelligent 13-year-old boy from Vermont, was bullied relentlessly—at school and online. A girl at school pretended to have a crush on him through chat, only to share his private messages and photos with classmates as a cruel prank.
He was mocked, taunted, and emotionally destroyed.
Eventually, the emotional pain became too much for Ryan. He took his own life. His story is just one of many that highlight the devastating power of cyberbullying. It’s a call for parents, schools, and communities to act now.
What is Cyberbullying?
Cyberbullying is harassment or intimidation that occurs through digital platforms—social media, text messages, emails, or online chats. It can take many forms:
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Name-calling or spreading rumors
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Posting humiliating images
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Sending threatening or offensive messages
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Excluding or isolating someone online
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Impersonating others to spread false information
Once something is posted online, it can be shared, saved, or screenshot instantly—and it lives forever.
The Lasting Impact of Cyberbullying
Cyberbullying can lead to:
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😞 Low self-esteem
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😔 Depression and anxiety
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📉 Poor school performance
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🚫 Avoidance of school or social activities
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🍷 Substance abuse
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🚨 Suicidal thoughts or actions
What makes cyberbullying even more harmful is that it can happen 24/7, without a safe space to escape.
How Can We Prevent Cyberbullying?
Parents and guardians must stay involved and informed about their child’s online behavior. Here are key tips:
✔️ Monitor your teen’s online activity regularly
✔️ Follow or friend them on social media
✔️ Talk openly about the dangers of cyberbullying
✔️ Know their friends—online and offline
✔️ Request access to passwords for emergency use
✔️ Enroll your teen in internet safety or digital citizenship classes
✔️ Watch for warning signs of depression or withdrawal
✔️ Involve school counselors or law enforcement if needed
If someone is in emotional crisis, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255).
One Voice Can Make a Difference
If you or someone you know is being cyberbullied, speak up. It only takes one person to start a change. Whether it’s reporting a post, checking in on a friend, or sharing your story, your voice matters.
Parents, teach your children early how to use the internet responsibly. Even if your teen gets upset about monitoring, explain that it’s not about control—it’s about keeping them safe.
Final Thought: What Would You Do as a Parent?
Would you wait for your child to come to you? Or would you be the one checking in first?
We can’t stop all the dangers, but we can equip our children with awareness, tools, and most importantly, our support.