Cross Dressing Teen & Depression
In a time where things are becoming more accepted your cross dressing teen maybe depressed. There is still plenty of confusion around the topic gender roles. It’s not something that comes easily to both sides of the family. But despite the difficulties, it’s a parent’s gift and honor to be able to support his or her children and offer them a shoulder when things seem bleak. Sadly though, this is not always the case, and recent studies show that teens are more at risk for mental health problems related to Cross Dressing.
Depression, anxiety and even suicidal thoughts and attempts than non-transgender youth. The fact that many parents don’t support their cross dressing teen the way they could, or should, it’s a recipe for disaster. “No person is your friend who demands your silence, or denies your right to grow.” Alice Walker
Cross Dressing struggling feeling lonely and depressed
lex’s experiences after she was placed in the foster-care system were no better. She says the families she was sent to live with were never told of her gender identity. “CPS didn’t tell them until I was already placed within the home,” she said. She also remembers counselors and psychologists whom she says would attempt to confuse her. “There would always be something mentally wrong with me. Every year, I was required to have a psychological exam, but the psychologist that I was forced to see–he would creep me out. He said that I wanted to be something that I was not.”
Cross Dressing feeling lonely and depressed
No one likes to be addressed as though they are an object, or someone not worthy of respect. Your transgender teen is still your child, still someone who deserves respect. As a society we commend the brave, we’ve commended war heroes and strong, valiant men, why not commend your teen who is willing to stand against an entire society who still doesn’t understand him or her. Doesn’t that in itself, deserve your respect? Stop feeling like this is something your teen is doing to you.
You may feel like a bomb has hit your life, but imagine how your teenager feels, every day. Never quite able to make it up before the next bomb, and the next, and the next. People are cruel and to make it through life still intact and full of love, your transgender teen is going to need someone to stand by him or her. Making the changes needed to successfully become the teen your child is comfortable with takes so much courage. But there’s no amount of courage that can last a lifetime. At some point in time, your teen needs to put his guard down. Be the one to keep him safe when he does.
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Keep on supporting your child through it all
He, or she, will likely rely on your emotional support for the rest of his life. Just as any child relies on the support of a parent. There are defining moments in our lives and knowing that there is a strong foundation of support can help a transgender teen through the most trying time of his life.
Cross Dressing struggling feeling lonely and depressed
Making the changes that come with being a cross dresser teenager takes immense bravery. Mom, you gave birth to this child, so you know what bravery is. Dad, you’ve made sure that your child always has food and clothing and a roof over his head, so you know what bravery is. Hold your teen closer than ever before and be that support that he needs.
Supporting our teens, no matter what, is always important!
Ive never really heard this talked about, so I’m really happy to see it being talked about the awareness being spread. It’s serious (the depression) kids, teens and adults need to be who they are and not have to be in fear. Depression needs to be taken seriously, and not frowned upon or isolated. The whole thing just breaks my heart.
This is not something I can comment to without some prayer first. I know what I want to say but I want to make sure it is the best wording before I say it. I can say this. I love my children and always will but I just teach them the truth.
Teenage years are hard enough even without cross-dressing. Adding that in makes it an even more stressful time. We definitely need to support our kids!
Liz Mays, Support and out love thats all our children want from us and all we can give which maybe difficult for some Parents.
I guess it’s hard for us parents to accept this, but if we can’t, then who else will? We should really learn to support our children no matter what.
Elizabeth O, Its difficult at times to accept what we want for our children is not what they are happy with for themselves
I have cousins from my mom’s side of the family who cross-dress; even one of my mom’s older brothers cross-dressed too. My Mom comes from a family of 13 siblings, 11 are boys and only 2 of them are girls. Whilst it was painful at first for my uncles, I’ve seen how they slowly softened their hearts and became more understanding of my cousins, who by the way, are all achievers. Support and understanding from family are important.
Russ, We can only continue to support our children in the end it’s their choice.
Thank you for this informative post on teen depression and gender identy. It is an important topic to discuss and we should always support our kids.