Get Away Rape—It Can’t Hurt Me Anymore
Each year, millions of teens around the world suffer from abuse. Get away rape—a form of sexual violence that includes verbal coercion, emotional manipulation, and physical assault—continues to claim the confidence, safety, and dreams of countless young people.
While society constantly lectures girls to “be careful,” to avoid strangers, to protect themselves—recent high-profile cases, such as the Bill Cosby allegations, remind us: you can’t always spot a predator. Power and status do not equal integrity.
The Hidden Truth Behind Closed Doors
Too often, child molestation happens not by strangers, but by people children are taught to trust—family members, teachers, coaches, caregivers.
As a healthcare professional, I’ve encountered too many cases where survivors—especially girls—carry deep shame. They weren’t confused about what happened. They were too afraid to speak, paralyzed by betrayal and guilt. They weren’t just hurt; they were silenced.
And when victims do speak up? Society frequently doubts them. This leads to depression, anxiety, self-harm, substance abuse, and falling into abusive relationships later in life.
Breaking the Silence—Courage Is Contagious
Jamie Carillo is one example of courage. She came forward to expose her abuser and fought to hold the system accountable. Her bravery shows survivors that justice is possible—and that their voices matter.
But not everyone is ready or able to speak. Victims often ask themselves:
“Was it my fault for going to his place?”
“Did I lead him on?”
“Will anyone believe me?”
Let’s be clear: non-consensual contact is never the victim’s fault. Ever. Not in any situation.
How Do People Get Away With Rape?
The answer is devastating: silence, shame, and a system that fails to listen.
Many perpetrators walk free because victims are afraid—afraid of being blamed, judged, or ignored.
Our society teaches girls how to “avoid rape,” when it should be teaching everyone not to rape. Worse, celebrities like Cosby often have elite legal teams and PR experts to bury cases and silence victims.
Survivors Deserve Support—Not Silence
Rape leaves invisible scars. Survivors often live with fear, confusion, and emotional isolation. For many, the worst part isn’t the act itself—it’s not being believed.
We must stop discouraging young girls from speaking up. Instead, we must teach them:
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Their bodies belong to them.
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Their “no” always matters.
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Their stories are real—and deserve to be heard.
Time to Stand With Survivors
This isn’t just about one man or one case. This is about creating a world where victims are supported, not silenced.
To every survivor: It wasn’t your fault. You matter. You are not alone.
To society: Stop shielding predators. Start empowering victims.
Only then can we say we’re truly fighting for justice.